Saturday 4 february 2012 6 04 /02 /Feb /2012 16:35

Dear GOD,
Thank you for another day.

That's how I start my day each and everyday. Oh, I'm not gonna sit here and type that like I have always started my day that way. No, quite far from the truth. Like so many others, there was a time when I started my day moaning, groaning and griping about how I felt, how much I was going to have to get done and how much I didn't get done. Far too many things going on in MY life for me to wake up and say Thank You GOD for Another Day. Yep. MY life was too busy, I had too much to do and I had to get it all done myself. I was going to make it happen today!! THAT USED TO BE the way I saw it.

I can't say that my epiphany was overly dramatic. It was more of a gradual return to what I already knew and believed in MY heart. I believe in GOD. I know HE loves me. I'm not afraid to admit that. Oh, I know there will be those who say there is no GOD and GOD isn't real. They will spend tons of time trying to tell others just how much GOD doesn't exist. How there can't be a GOD. And you know what? MORE POWER TO THEM!. If that is what THEY want to go with, then GOD bless them and let them go enjoy themselves. I won't put them down, call them stupid or do anything to take away from their GOD given right to feel and believe what they desire; so long as they don't try to force me to change my beliefs either.

After all, isn't that what America is about? Allowing freedom of speech, religion and the right to pursue a life of liberty and happiness? So long as you don't interrupt other peoples rights to pursue what they desire and you don't cause any harm, I'm pretty cool with your choice. As for me, I'm going with GOD. I KNOW what I believe HE has done in my life. I know what HE has brought me through. I know that HE is a way maker when there doesn't seem to be a way. But I'm not writing this to preach. No, I'm writing this to say, if you want your days to go different, be different, then you need to change what you have been doing. You can't keep doing what you have been doing and expect to get a different result. I saw somewhere that someone had written doing that was the definition of insanity.

I live with chronic pain. No secret, you can read my story on http://PainCornerStore.com or on http://Pain.yolasite.com or even on http://www.realisticallycorrect.wetpaint.com . And if that isn't evidence enough you can check out any of the 20 blogs that I administrate and the countless other blogs that I have written articles for and or commented on. I share what I have experienced and what I have learned while living with chronic pain. I share the tips, ideas, articles, methods and products that I use and have used to help me through the various stages of my growth as a person who has chronic pains. It's been a "live and learn" kind of life.

If I'm being honest, I'd have to tell you that it hasn't been and easy journey. Chronic pain is no joke. Even with GOD in my corner, I'm still just a human being. I still stumble, I still fall but I get up. I get up knowing that GOD has a plan for me even through all of this. EVEN through it all. As bad as my pain gets at times, I find solace in remembering that I'm still alive and I have a chance to see my family once more, to spend time with family and friends, to enjoy life. I can take meds and turn up my SCS unit, put some ice and heat on me and in time, the pain will subside to a level that I can tolerate better. I didn't say the pain would go away, no I haven't been painfree since 1993, but the pain does get to a level I can tolerate better. You learn to make adjustments with what you do, when you do it and how you do it.

I firmly believe that having certain elements in MY life has made the difference in how I tolerate and live with the chronic pains. My family, my friends, those people I have gained associations with through my blogs and websites and my spirituality; my relationship with GOD. I can't tell you enough how incorporating all of those pieces into my life has made a difference in how I am living with chronic pains and handling the changes that have been necessitated. If you live with chronic pains, might I suggest that you develop a multi-pronged approach that includes all of the same type of elements that I have found useful? If you haven't tried it, what will it hurt? If you are trying it, are you applying yourself fully? Have you changed how you view things? Do you say "Thank you GOD" more or less often? Are you looking at what you have to be grateful for or what you have to complain about?

The universe GOD created responds to whatever we put out into it through our thoughts and actions. What do you want to put out there? If you knew that what you say would come to happen to you instantly, what would you say?

As for me, I'm gonna keep starting my day off by saying "Thank you GOD for another day"!

V. Holland
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Tuesday 2 march 2010 2 02 /03 /Mar /2010 07:27

I'm confused. So many changes have been made to school curriculum in an effort to accomplish what really? I seem to remember when schools focused on reading, writing, arithmetic and they included classes like gym, health, art and music. Schools opened and closed about the same time that they do today and we managed to somehow squeeze in all the classes and activities needed to turn out some fairly well educated folks. I mean, look at what has been accomplished and some of the people who were educated in that "outdated" school curriculum.

 

If the curriculum was so "ineffective" then how did we get a Barack Obama? A Bill Gates and Steve Jobs? You know them, right? Microsoft and Apple ring a bell? What about the scientist who developed the space program during the 60's, 70's and 80's? These folks are responsible for the technology and gadgets that we are "educating" our children to keep up with in today's school environment. So why such a drastic shift in school curriculum? What is this emphasis on teaching to "pass a test" that is supposed to validate whether or not our children are getting an education? What is the difference today from when we went through school?

 

When you look at the people who were educated in that "old school curriculum" you should begin to wonder how they ever had the ability to do what they have done. If the curriculum needed such an overhaul, what happened with us? What made us intelligent, driven, motivated to achieve what we have? If the curriculum was so suspect that folks feel compelled to overhaul it, then maybe it was the way we were taught or better yet, WHO taught us. Dare I say, it was the teachers that made the difference.

 

 

Teachers who were in the profession to teach, not so much to earn a paycheck. It couldn't have been the paycheck because teachers have notoriously been underpaid for DECADES, yet there they were each and everyday standing in front of the classroom pouring out all of their knowledge so that we could soak it up. They worked hard to impart the education and experience they had gained on us. They had time to answer questions and review tests. I don't remember them ever "leaving any child behind" when I was in school. They would tutor at recess and even stay after school to help IF you asked.

 

I believe that it was the teachers that made all of the difference. Oh, I'm not saying there aren't good teachers today. On the contrary, there are some excellent teachers out there but there's also a group of teachers that chose teaching as a JOB not a profession. They are in it for the paycheck and it was the path of least resistance. Teachers in our day communicated with parents. They didn't take any gruff in the classroom. They gave and demanded respect. Dropout rates weren't near as high as they are today and students had many teachers they looked up to with respect and even wanted to become a teacher like them. So, is it the curriculum or the way the curriculum has been imparted onto the students?
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I guess this is all my opinion and since I have a right to an opinion, I felt like writing it down. I just can't help but wonder about the old Mi-Ne proverb: if the leaves on the tree are sickly, look at the roots.

 

V.Holland

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Monday 21 september 2009 1 21 /09 /Sep /2009 06:22

Well, I Am An Adult, So Nah!

By chronicpainhero

Okay folks.  I kinda thought that part of being an adult was being responsible for your actions and accepting consequences of those actions.  I may be wrong but wouldn’t that include apologizing when we do something wrong to somebody?  So, if we should apologize when we do something wrong to somebody, how many times should we apologize to make it right?  Is one time enough?  How about ten times?  Or does the number of times we need to apologize equal the number of people we offended?  Can I issue one mass apology and let that be it for everyone in the group or should I make sure that everyone I have wronged is apologized for properly?  Then again, what is a proper apology?

Say I did something bone-headed, stupid, ignorant, ass backwards, foot in my mouth, jackass of all times bad like, oh, I don’t know, yelled out that the president of the United States of America was a lie during an address to congress and the nation while I was a sitting congressman.  Would that require an apology?  And if so, who should I be held accountable to apologize to?  Do the people of the United States deserve an apology because I violated every protocol known to congress when I made my disparaging, idiotic, self-serving, piss ant of a person, remark?  Do I owe my colleagues, the ones who I made look bad by association when I did what had never been done before on the floor of congress to any president?  Do I owe an apology to the people who had the audacity to think that I was in my right mind, that I was intelligent and not some backwoods, boontucket, bumfuddled, brickwacker, bait for brains jerk and voted for me to be their congressman and represent them in Washington?

Of course I don’t.  I’m a congressman by golly and I know what they need, I know what they want.  If it wasn’t for me, they would all be lost.  NO, I am going to apologize one time and that’s that.  If that ain’t good enough for anybody then they can just go sit in the dark and get over it because I am not going to make more than one apology.  Heck, I don’t really want to make the one apology because I’m so full of myself and I know every dadgum thing there is to know so I don’t think I should be apologizing anyway and who does President Obama think he is anyway?  Hell, he ain’t nobody but the PRESIDENT OF THESE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA.  Not like that position means anything anyway.  Hell, just any old body can be president.  I mean, only the majority of AMERICA voted for him to be president.  Everybody didn’t vote for him so it’s not like he’s GOD or something.  He’s just another guy like me.  We both put our pants on one leg at a time.  Yeah, so what he’s a world leader and I’m just some smuck who got elected to congress?  So what he has the respect of most of America and most of America don’t even know who the hell I am?

Just because he is the PRESIDENT OF THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA, that doesn’t make him in some elite club or nothing like the klan I belong too.  I mean, we are a special bunch.  You don’t get to be this stupid, ignorant, jack-assed, backwoods dense, waterheaded, shit for brains dumb overnight.  No, it takes generations of people passing down their ignorance and raising their youngins to be just as ignorant to get to be a big enough ass to actually yell out that the PRESIDENT OF THE UNITED STATES of AMERICA is a lie during a national address to congress and the country on the floor of congress.  No, it takes a special kind of self pride and egotism to do something that stupid.  Not anybody can do something that disgraceful.  So, see, I am special.  I am about as bad an example of what being a congressman should be.

And you know what, after all that is said and done, I aint gonna apologize but one time.  I don’t care if they pass a whatchamacallit and demand that I apologize for my stupid outburst, if I was to do something that stupid, I would just look at them all right in the eye and say, ” WELL, I AM AN ADULT, SO NAH!”

a satirical look at something dumb by V.Holland  aka  Chronic Pain Hero

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Monday 21 september 2009 1 21 /09 /Sep /2009 05:18

Experts worry bad economy can lead to serious health problems

Can you imagine that?  On top of everything else going on, now the bad economic conditions can lead to serious health problems?  As if I didn't have enough pain in my life already.  Do I really need anymore?  I guess it could be worse.  The bad economy could lead to stupidity.  Or it could lead to being extremely jumpy and having unrealistic expectations like say, oh, I don't know, that people would learn to get along together regardless of race, color or ethnicity.  Might as well throw in world peace too while I'm at it. 

Oh, I'm only being sarcastic because I live in a country where people actually expect the president to be in office for eight months and have all of the problem of the country solved.  Now, didn't people have a real hard time accepting Jesus Christ and all HE did was heal the sick and feed the masses with 2 fish and five loaves of bread.....and HE was able to walk on water.  (don't forget, they hung HIM on a cross to show how grateful they were but that's another story) So, if the president, Mr. Barack Obama, did indeed solve all of the country's problems what would they try to do to him?  Maybe he is better off having to struggle to get done the simple promises he made during his campaign.  Of course, he was alturistic enough to believe that Congress would be on his side and actually HELP him make some of the changes he envisioned.  Historically speaking, there is a precedent for the masses in power NOT helping the one who could make a difference ....(SEE JESUS CHRIST AND THE SCHOLARS, PRIESTS, ETC.)

Not that I'm comparing President Obama to JESUS.  I am, however, comparing the plight of a good person who only wants to help the people reach a higher plane and the masses in power who don't want to accept that persons vision, words, ideas, etc.  (SEE CONGRESS AND DISRESPECTING THE PRESIDENT FOR FIRST TIME IN HISTORY IN A NATIONAL ADDRESS....NO LIE) So, as I ramble on about the stupid things that are occurring I guess I should make some kind of connection to how the economy is causing these outbreaks of stupidity.  I guess I COULD but, hey, it's a blog and I'm only having some fun spreading my opinion. 

So,  talking about the economy and pain.  Yes, when things are tight, people feel more stress.  When the body is under more stress, we tend to notice more little aches and pains.  The incidence of migraines goes up.  Sore backs increase as people sit in awkward positions working overtime to make up for the people who were laid off.  Regular headaches from too many meetings.  Indigestion from eating too many donuts and too much junk food at meetings and to make up for missing lunch.  We put our bodies thru so many changes that feeling some kind of pain is almost inevitable.  The body doesn't forget the things we do to it.

You ever notice the number of men in positions of power and money that have these enormous potbellies?  Or at least big enough that you might mistake them for being a couple of months pregnant.  That girth around the middle isn't good for the back let alone the other medical problems it presents.  The worse the economy is, the more fewer people are called upon to do the work of many.  Layoffs send people home, frustrated, aggravated and looking for an outlet.  Finding a way to work of the anger that goes along with being "downsized" can often lead to overexertion.  Trying to hard to get in extra reps at the gym.  Rushing to finish the "honey do" list that has been building up for the last few years while you were at work too many hours believing you had a future there; until you were downsized.  Ouch, did you just slam your hand on the desk?  Now you have a sore hand.  What can you do to make that pain go away quick?

Yes, a bad economy can lead to serious health problems.  I know that I was being sarcastic in my blog but seriously, we need to be aware that stress and being under stress for extended periods can lead to major health problems.  Some people discount that they are even under stress.  Don't be fooled.  Just because you still  have your job while those around you are downsized and you are still able to meet your monthly bills doesn't mean you aren't under stress too.  Do whatever you can to take care of yourself.  Get some down time away from the job.  Go do something you truly enjoy.  Avoid fighting with your spouse or being upset about inconsequential things your kids do.  Find the time to enjoy your life.  If you work hard then play hard.  Love your family.  Don't get stressed about the little things.  There's a fun saying: "don't sweat the petty things and don't pet the sweaty things".  That's some pretty good advice in a bad economy.

Here's to staying healthy.

V.Holland  aka  Chronic Pain Hero
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Saturday 22 august 2009 6 22 /08 /Aug /2009 11:51
(Part 2) Under-Educated, Internally Segregated, Yet StillStanding

That last minute test is all well and good but it can't cover everything and it only covers the "tangible" stuff so to speak. The material that's in the text book. It doesn't cover how to apply the material, how it applies to life and what it's relevance is to your life. It doesn't really reveal anything except that you studied and learned enough to pass this test. You could be as dumb as a brick otherwise but you passed the test so there you go. Focusing only on what's in the books creates a one-sided student. They don't know about living life. They are under-educated and life quickly tests them each and everyday. Many students realize they are failing life's tests and begin to question what they are enduring and why. They lose faith in the system and look to home for reassurance that it all makes sense and should be done. When home doesn't or can't provide the assurances children need, they look outside, to the neighborhoods, relatives and peers but the answers aren't there either.

How else can you have a society where a community, the black community, exists with unacceptable levels of drug abuse, crime, school dropouts, high unemployment and poverty? Somebody who has been educated in a well rounded manner, learns to seek solutions to problems, learns how to communicate, learns the dangers of drugs and the senselessness of crime. They don't accept that poverty is the only solution. They don't believe that unemployment is the only option. They know that education opens the doors that many would have them believe are closed shut to them. They look to create opportunities. Even in hard economic times they don't look outside for a handout, they look within to create a job opportunity. They start businesses. Continue to educate themselves. Form partnerships with others who can provide them with tools, tips and access to things they need. They don't look for the easy way, they look for the best way. They have been taught that the power to chang lies within in them. They know that history has proven that those who think can do and those who do can achieve. They don't just look to fill a role in society and then stand dumbfounded when that role isn't available yet. They create a new role or fill another role because they have the educational background that enables them to do that. The other, under-educated folks, well, they run into wall and just keep moving their feet like a robot doing the same thing day after day and expecting to get a different result.

Crime, stupid murders of women, children and men, robbery, car-jacking, drug and alcohol abuse exist within the black community because too many black children haven't been taught the value of a black person. They haven't been taught the many roles that blacks can have in society and that new roles can be created. They get caught up in believing that everything is easy because they haven't been taught that there is a value to everything. They don't see their lives having purpose because they don't know how to achieve anything they imagine. They believe it's out of reach and don't have the knowledge to build a ladder to help them reach it. So they turn to destruction. They destroy what has no value to them. They destroy what has no purpose to them. If they were taught to do more than just fill a role. If they were taught values. Taught that being a neighbor was a positive thing. That drugs destroy who they are and can be. If they were taught how to use math and how to use their reading skills. If they were taught. Taught that handouts are something to be read not something to get for nothing. Taught that using their brains was as important to being a man or woman as using their muscles to be an athlete or musician was. Too many are passed along in school. The parents accept failing grades and blame it on the schools. The neighbors see the careless, selfish and often destructive behavior and look the other way because they don't want to get in a disagreement with the parents. The parents who are too busy trying to make a living or to busy living their own lives to check on the education of their child. What is your child learning anyway?

Why can other races come to America, in a time of economic downturn, and start a business? Why can other races live 2, 3 or 4 families to a house and work together to help each one buy their own house only to bring in more families and do the same. Why can other races do business with members of their communities yet black people don't want to do business with other black business owners? Why is it "cool" to rob your neighbor just because they bought a new tv or stereo and you don't have one? Why is it hip to be a drug dealer" To be a pimp? Why does somebody suddenly become "down" because they do jail time then come home and sit around unemployed blaming everything on somebody else? Why is going to jail an option that anybody is okay with? Why is it cool to have a several children by several women, none of whom you raise or support? Why is it okay to be a teenage mother on assistance programs?

In my opinion, all of those exist because people are under-educated. We don't know who we are. We don't know how valuable we are. We don't know how to resolve problems and conflicts without harming somebody. We don't know how to be "successful" so we don't want anyone else to be. We don't know how to create our own opportunity so we allow ourselves to get caught up in an opportunity that somebody else creates that doesn't benefit us. We go along with what a small segment of the population thinks is the only solution because "society" doesn't want us to be here or to have anything. We allow racist people's thinking to determine our ability to succeed and limit our opportunities because we haven't educated ourselves. We are unarmed when we are under-educated. Being under-educated makes us perpetually unprepared and put us at the mercy of ever changing minds and situations. Life controls us, we don't control it.

Inspite of those pitfalls, we're still standing. Imagine if we were a weaker people. A people who collectively gave in and gave up. We wouldn't be still standing on the edge of greatness. With all of the shortcomings and under-education, we are still standing. We can solve the problems. We know that schools under-educate. We know that neighborhoods aren't neighborhoods anymore. We know that opportunities exist. That is why we are still standing. That is why we can fix what is broken and make better what is lacking. We can begin to educate our children at home and in our neighborhoods once again. We can teach our children and ourselves that we have a value and need to be cherished not written off. We can teach each other not to accept handouts but to give a hand up to those who need it. We can teach each other not to envy a neighbors progress and not to begrudge them for their gains and as neighbors who make gains, we can share how we did it with each other.

We can talk and discover new ideas. We can overcome stereotypes and labels. We can put true value on education and not accepting mediocrity. We can demand that our children are taught and then participate in their education. We can read with our children. Do homework with our children. Write with them, play music with them, draw and encourage them to do more than just get by. We don't have to accept being under-educated. The books are there. The libraries are there. The internet is there. We must use the tools we have available even if nobody tells us to use them. We can't wait on teachers to educate our children, we must be the first to educate them. We must stop making excuses and stand in the gap so our children don't fall in. Teach our children that the book is only the beginning of the education process. Explore the world. Be open to other cultures. Ask questions and listen to the answers. It's cool to be educated. You can be smart and be black. You can be well rounded and be black. You can do right and be black. You can love GOD, country and your fellow man and be black. All of the roles for blacks in society haven't been created yet so create your own and live to the fullest of your positive potential. It starts with not being under-educated.

Just my opinion.

V.Holland aka CHRONIC PAIN HERO
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